I loved the conversation I had with my husband a few years back when HE started a sentence with “I’m not a feminist but -” I interrupted with, “Sorry, darling, but you totally are.” He was silent for a second before saying, a bit surprised, “You’re right!” He’s not as outspoken as me and things don’t grate at him the way they do me, and that’s good because he’s my safe place when the anger boils over. I’ve always felt his support but hearing him declare aloud he was on the same side as me was such a powerful thing for me personally. Let’s hear it for the boys!